女权主义者的性欲观

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女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》卡塔 尔(英语:State of Qatar)作者一贯以为,女权主义者皆以些身穿男人西装剪着老公发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。以后才清楚过来,原本女权主义者也有七情六欲的!不仅仅如此,她们的私欲比平日女子更直接,更加强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了整个二个章节来演讲女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更擅长干那件事(以致别的关于性的唤起卡塔 尔(阿拉伯语:قطر‎FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTE奥迪Q5 (AND OTHE锐界 SEX
TIPS)》。她直抒胸意就自身璀璨“小编在床的面上比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I’m
better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for
it.)现代男权社会对女士有后生可畏种格格不入的双重规范:一方面,女生在青天白日承当“守贞教育”,中午则在电视上观看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被教育说婚前性行为是七颠八倒的,其他方面又告诉你,你若想形成一名春假辣妹,你尽快对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the
camera.)守贞思想家是这么来教育女人的:“你们的躯体正是风流浪漫根棒棒糖。当你们与先生发生性关系时,他剥去你的糖衣,含吮起来。此时也许认为到没有错,可可惜的是,他与您完事后,你们留给下一人伴侣的正是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残渣。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.
“)够耸人传闻的。但是女权主义者不吃那风流洒脱套。瓦伦蒂提议的口号是:“小编的处女膜作者做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves
)”她说:“小编从没闹明白处女贞操有啥大不断,真的。作者的贞操在中学时代就被一名男盆友没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了几许年呢。小编还感觉会有哪些出格的认为到啊,未有。作者总感到这种把处女贞操当成绝世佳人一次事很鲁钝。所以您能够伪造,当本身开采自身原本是被用过即弃的污源时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash without
it.)笔者比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是藐视男生的。但是在管理本人的性欲时,她们对先生的神态显著又是另生机勃勃番山水。诚然,她们与女婿上床,再亦非为了取悦娃他爹,更不是为了传宗接代,而纯粹是为着和睦的欢喜。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,便是:风流倜傥边做女权主义者,朝气蓬勃边交欢!(f***ing
while feminist
!)只是,直面一位性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小男子消受得起?

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自家直接感觉,女权主义者都以些身穿男性西装剪着爱人发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。

于今才晓得过来,原本女权主义者也可以有七情六欲的!不止如此,她们的私欲比日常女人更直接,更加强势,更自私。

瓦伦蒂用了任何八个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干那件事(以至别的关于性的提示卡塔 尔(英语:State of Qatar)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTELacrosse (AND OTHE本田CR-V SEX TIPS)》。

他直言不讳就自己炫丽“小编在床的上面比你行,而那得归功于女权主义。”(I’m better
in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)

现代男权社会对女生有后生可畏种相互抵触的双重标准:一方面,女生在青霄白日担负“守贞教育”,中午则在电视上来看“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被感化说婚前性行为是非符合规律的,另一面又告诉你,你若想形成一名春假辣妹,你赶紧对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the camera.)

守贞文学家是如此来教育女人的:“你们的皮肤正是生机勃勃根棒棒糖。当你们与男生发生性关系时,他剥去你的门面,含吮起来。那个时候恐怕感到对的,可可惜的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一个人伴侣的即是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残留。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. “)

够耸人传闻的。可是女权主义者不吃那意气风发套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“小编的处女膜我做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves )

”她说:“作者从不闹精通处女贞操有怎样大不断,真的。我的贞节在中学时期就被一名男盆友没怎么费事就夺去了。大家后来还约会了好几年呢。作者还以为会有怎么样新鲜的认为啊,未有。笔者总认为这种把处女贞操当成出水水花三次事很鸠拙。所以您能够假造,当自家发掘本人原本是被用过即弃的废品(或棒棒糖卡塔尔国时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

作者相比纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是鄙夷男士的。可是在拍卖自身的情欲时,她们对老头子的千姿百态显明又是另生机勃勃番景色。诚然,她们与娃他妈上床,再亦不是为了阿谀逢迎老公,更不是为着传宗接代,而纯粹是为了自个儿的欢喜。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:少年老成边做女权主义者,后生可畏边交合!(Fucking
while feminist !)

只是,面前碰着一人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一人小汉子消受得起?